Healing From War: Thanking a Veteran for Her Service Is Not Enough

(Image: Jared Rodriguez / Truthout)While psychological trauma is more commonly treated among veterans today, moral injuries are only beginning to be addressed. (Image: Jared Rodriguez / Truthout)How we characterize the injuries sustained by veterans in war is crucial both to our understanding of the war experience and to the healing process. I have argued elsewhere that to ignore, trivialize or subsume the whole of veterans’ readjustment difficulties under the post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) umbrella as mental illness is misguided and fails to address the spectrum of veterans’ injuries and needs. Consequently, for purposes of clarity and accuracy, I have termed the totality of the “invisible wounds” presented by returning veterans as the “psychological, emotional and moral injuries of war.” I have detailed the nature of these injuries at length in my book Beyond PTSD: The Moral Casualties of War.

Morality is clinically relevant to veteran healing because combat behavior is in conflict with the soldier’s moral foundations.

Despite the many voices that have brought attention to the prevalence and severity of moral injury, including Peter Marin’s article “Living in Moral Pain,” Robert Jay Lifton’s book Home From the War and my article on “The Moral Casualties of War: Understanding the Experience,” the traditional psychiatric community and Veterans Administration (VA) has long delayed recognizing and accepting the relevance of morality to the readjustment difficulties experienced by members of the military and veterans. To adequately and effectively treat returning soldiers (a term I am using to refer to all members of the military regardless of branch or gender), we must first accept the reality and severity of psychological, emotional and moral injuries and then go beyond PTSD, beyond the idea that all combat injuries are either physical or trauma related.

Moral Injury

Whether by nature or nurture, humankind has identified and internalized a set of values and norms that provide the parameters of our being — what I have termed our “moral identity.” These moral values and norms largely influence how we define ourselves as persons, structure our world, and render as comprehensible our relationship to it and to other human beings. Consequently, we have the need and the means to weigh concrete situations to determine acceptable (right) and unacceptable (wrong) behavior. Whether we act rightly or wrongly — that is, whether we act according to or in violation of our moral identity — will affect whether we perceive ourselves as true to our personal convictions and to others who share our values and ideals.

Morality is clinically relevant to veteran healing because combat behavior — displacing civilians, torturing, injuring and killing other human beings — is in conflict with the soldier’s moral foundations. Consequently, participation in war negatively impacts self-esteem, self-image and moral integrity, precipitating debilitating remorse, guilt, shame, disorientation and alienation from the remainder of the moral community. This is moral injury.

Though the military has given lip service to the prevalence, severity and debilitating effects of psychological, emotional and moral injuries (specifically PTSD) and the importance of screening and treating veterans for its occurrence, given the military’s culture of physical and mental toughness, these invisible wounds of war are rarely taken seriously, are ignored completely or are stigmatized as mental illness. Further, as noted above, until rather recently, the mainstream therapeutic communities, military and civilian, have neither recognized nor adequately addressed the prevalence and severity of moral injury. Tragically, military mental health professionals understand, implicitly if not explicitly, that their function is to “cure” the soldier quickly, or, more likely, to mask his or her symptoms with medication and return the veteran to the fighting.

Some Suggestions for Healing

An important first step in the treatment of psychological, emotional and moral injuries is to create an environment in which members of the military and veterans can feel comfortable seeking treatment, assured both that their injuries will be taken seriously and that they will be treated with dignity and respect. Since these injuries are the direct consequence of war fighting, they are as much combat injuries as a battlefield bullet wound or shrapnel-broken tibia. To say otherwise betrays either an effort to disenfranchise the psychologically, emotionally and morally injured or an ignorance of the nature, prevalence and severity of these non-physical injuries.

Consequently, psychologically, emotionally and morally injured veterans must be recognized as combat-wounded and therefore eligible to be awarded the Purple Heart medal. To do so would send the message to veterans and members of the military community that psychological, emotional and moral injuries are real and “legitimate” wounds of war and not a source of shame, weakness and embarrassment. Most importantly, it would encourage them to recognize, accept and seek treatment for their injuries.

If the appreciation and gratitude often expressed by politicians and citizens to members of the military and veterans is more than mere rhetoric, if this nation sincerely intends to fulfill its contractual obligation to those who served and sacrificed so much, if the injuries of veterans are to be taken seriously and their needs met, then the military and the Veterans Administration must go beyond lip service and pretense and implement a comprehensive and holistic treatment program that addresses the full spectrum of psychological, emotional and moral injuries. As trauma remains a critical aspect of the war experience, such a protocol would include (but not end with) traditional and nontraditional clinical interventions for traumatic stress.

For healing to occur, trauma, guilt and shame must not remain the veteran’s personal and private burden.

Foundational to all moral injuries are issues of meaning and value and of personal, ideological and moral conflict precipitated by the veteran’s experiences in war. As late adolescents and young adults were psychologically, emotionally and morally conditioned to kill through a sophisticated indoctrination process (boot camp, basic training), returning warriors must be deprogrammed, that is, prepared to reintegrate into a non-martial environment. Veterans require re-education — a reverse boot camp, so to speak — to replace warrior values and behaviors with values and behaviors appropriate to the environment into which they are to reintegrate. This process is intended to shore up their moral identities and verify that this period of horror — their war experiences — was a moral aberration, that the cruelty and brutality of the battlefield damages character, undermines one’s ethical foundations and moral integrity, and distorts one’s perception of correct behavior.

Once the moral uniqueness of the battlefield is understood, veterans are better prepared to discuss and analyze, together with others who have shared the experience, the actions, feelings and memories they have thus far tried, unsuccessfully, to forget, ignore or mask with drugs and alcohol. This process of introspection and self-examination, what I term “sorting out and placing in perspective,” allows veterans to re-examine their behavior in combat, enabling them to better evaluate and assess, realistically and honestly, their personal responsibility for their actions or omissions during war. In doing so, veterans may consider whether their behavior in combat, though not morally justifiable, may, given the nature of war, be understandable, perhaps even excusable, and their culpability mitigated by the fact that those who determined policy, sent them into harm’s way, issued the orders and allowed the war to occur and continue unchallenged must share responsibility for the crimes and horror that inevitably characterize war.

After all is said and done, however, veterans must accept some measure of personal responsibility for their decisions and actions on the battlefield and realize that guilt and shame may be warranted. For healing to occur, self-forgiveness and/or absolution for their moral and legal transgressions may be necessary, whether through religious ritual or community service. As veterans better understand the nature and reality of war and how it has been mythologized, they may realize the importance of activism and its benefit to healing. By speaking out, exposing Warists’ lies and holding them accountable, veterans are demonstrating true patriotism by acting in the national interest.

By educating the public about the truth of war and bringing attention to its cost in lives and treasure, veterans are acting on behalf of the well-being and dignity of their comrades, and for the betterment of humankind. By becoming activists, many veterans have found the renewal, absolution and penance they so desperately need to forgive themselves and find meaning in their lives. While the past can never be undone, nor the dead be made to live again, such acts of atonement may allow veterans to begin the process of restoring their integrity, moral cohesion, self-esteem and perception of self. As healing progresses, veterans’ relationships to their world and to other human beings become intelligible, ending their alienation and isolation from the remainder of the moral community.

Communalizing Trauma and Moral Pain

What has become apparent over many years and many wars is that remaining silent about the experience is neither curative nor patriotic, contrary to what those who advocate war would have us believe. Nor is the nation’s obligation to its veterans satisfied by an expression of appreciation and thanks. For healing to occur, trauma, guilt and shame must not remain the veteran’s personal and private burden. Rather, trauma and moral pain must be communalized — that is, unpacked, examined and discussed with others who understand and/or shared the experience.

Given the moral enormity and gravity of the war experience, the journey to healing, to achieving some sense of normalcy, is long and difficult. It is not uncommon for psychological, emotional and moral injuries to persist and fester. The hope is, of course, that with hard work, courage, guidance and encouragement, a comprehensive, integrated and holistic treatment protocol will provide the means and the opportunity for a veteran not to put the war behind her and go on with her life as she has been naively advised on many occasions — war can never be forgotten — but, more realistically, to find meaning in and acceptance of the experience and, ultimately, a place for it in her being.