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Enough Bombs Bursting in Air. We Need to Love One Another.

On this day of national self-congratulation, I propose a project.

A crowd watches fireworks together.

I read an article in the Washington Post last week that made me want to run up a tree and scream like a blue jay. Many white evangelical Trump supporters, it seems, were just as horrified as you and me about the images of caged migrant children crying for their parents at the southern border. The pastors in any number of white evangelical churches thundered against the policy of family separation from the pulpits, yet many white evangelicals still refused to stand up and say, “Trump is wrong, protect the children,” even as they found the images on television “wretched.”


According to the article, those white evangelicals are so against some of the people protesting border separations — the protesters who are liberal, pro-choice and pro-same-sex marriage — that they refuse to join them, even in the name of defending children. In this “culture war,” the Post explained, many white evangelicals are driven foremost by “a desire not to be on the same side as secular, socially liberal forces that to many are by far the biggest threat to America.”

“Not to be on the same side.” This, for me, is one of the great mysteries of life. How far do you have to go in your own mind to arrive at such a place? How tangled and warped is your own personal moral code that you are so profoundly against other people’s freedoms that you refuse to be for the protection of children? Where do you locate the gall to do that under the shroud of religious righteousness?

On this day of national self-congratulation, as much of the country extols the status quo and obscures the legacy of violence at the heart of this nation’s fundamental existence, I propose a project.

It is the easiest thing on Earth to sit down and make a list of everything you’re against. For example, I am against racism, sexism, homophobia, war, border separations, poverty, pollution, easy access to firearms, the war on drugs, police brutality, for-profit prisons, unfettered government surveillance, whoever Donald Trump coughs up to replace Justice Kennedy and every professional sports team from the state of New York.

That took 16 seconds to compile; I know full well what I despise, as do you. But what are you for? What are you positively in favor of? Never mind, for a moment, what you hate. I want to know what you seek.

I’ll make my list if you make yours.

First and foremost, I am for a radical reorganization of our national financial priorities… and I say “radical” with tongue firmly planted in cheek, because these ideas only sound radical to about 500 hyper-wealthy families in the country.

For the rest of us, this is common sense: Overthrow Citizens United so we can actually have politicians with the will to act on behalf of someone other than their paymasters, slash the bloated Pentagon budget and make it our national mission in life to root out the trillions of dollars rich people have hidden offshore so we can tax those monies accordingly.

Use the vast revenues located in this endeavor to fully fund and expand the social safety net, make health care, education and infrastructure a priority, and turn loose the enormous potential of alternative energy while shutting off the oil/coal/fracking spigot. Take every austerity argument you’ve ever heard and set them on fire. We are not broke. The money is there; it has been stolen. It is time to take it back, because it belongs to us all.

End the reign of plastic. The stuff had a good run, made life easier for millions, helped us reach outer space, all that jazz, but it’s enough already. The first piece of plastic ever made still exists, and will exist forever unless someone burns it, and since burning plastic releases highly toxic dioxins into the air, don’t do that.

There are garbage patches of plastic floating in the Pacific Ocean that are three-times larger than France, and dead whales are washing up on beaches with their gullets filled with plastic shopping bags. If we kill the oceans, we are done, and plastics are killing the oceans. Every time I touch a sandwich baggie, I feel like I just murdered a sea turtle, because if I throw the damned thing away, that’s exactly what might happen.

Recycling will not save us. Recycling, in fact, is trembling on the verge of collapse. Find an alternative. There are plenty of them, and I personally hold those brown paper grocery bags to be charmingly nostalgic as well as entirely reusable. Do this along with the above-noted dissolution of the fossil fuel industry, and we just might see the far side of the century with the polar ice caps still intact. It’s a start.

Learn to love one another. The right-wing Christians who are currently promoting policies of hate in the US would do well to note that Jesus of Nazareth named this as the 11th Commandment: “A new commandment I give unto you,” said the carpenter in John 13:34, “that ye love one another; even as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.”

You don’t even have to be religious to value that edict. Even if you are as deeply cynical as I am about the vicious patriarchal “morality” imposed by many major religious institutions, “love one another” is something we can all roll with if we choose to. Racism, misogyny, homophobia, nationalism and war wouldn’t stand a chance if everyone took this simple instruction to heart.

Finally, move past denial and find our potential. All the flags, bunting and Souza marches in the world cannot obscure the grim reality that the United States has never, ever, not once, fully lived up to the hype we hear on days like today. There have been flashes of brilliance and moments of true greatness, to be sure, but all of them have taken place at the same time as generations of people have been shut out, beat down, imprisoned and denied their fundamental rights.

It has never not been this way. Ours is a nation built on slave labor and the slaughter of Indigenous peoples. Women in the US only won the right to vote 99 years ago, and the brazen disenfranchisement of people of color continues even at this very moment. Growing old meant growing poor for the majority of people until very recently, and will mean so again if certain people have their way. A misplaced belief in our national exceptionalism combined with the ever-present profit motive has consigned untold millions around the world to death and grief thanks to the one thing the US has always excelled at: killing people in wars.

The framers of the Constitution, for all their high-blown rhetoric, were a ghastly lot in the main by modern standards: white privilege in powdered wigs who saw owning human beings as part of their natural order, and who enshrined the massacre of Native peoples in that section of the Declaration of Independence we don’t talk about at July 4th barbecues.

These, too, are facts.

Yet for all that, and perhaps due in part to the deep programming I have absorbed since birth, I believe this country can be better. This place has never lived up to its potential, but it could if we deploy the tools provided to us in the founding documents.

The framers, for all their supernova flaws, laid down a framework for the achievement of human liberty and excellence that can work for all of us, but only if we stop being against everything and start being for each other.

Your turn.